Sep 09 2010
Can Ministries pull on their leaders so much that they are sucking the life out of the faithful few?
I loved this comment so much that I wanted to share it with you.
After reading, please share your opinion.
Stay Blessed,

Nicole Cleveland
Chief Editor/Founder
Breathe Again Magazine
www.breatheagainmagazine.com
www.nicoleconline.com

Here is Mary’s comment from “Are You being Choked?“
Submitted by Evangelist Mary B. Boykins

You know, Nicole, as I read the article, all I could think of was my past experience of almost having the life sucked out of me via ministry.
In ministry, you must have a balance. Sometimes, our spiritual leaders can pull on their ministry leaders so much so until you are no longer effective. You need the time to be refreshed–not just spiritually, but mentally, emotionally, and physically. We must take the time to live!
Vacations are not just needed, they are a “must do.” Then, we have to “learn” to be comfortable with saying “No.” Everything in the churches ministry is not “your” assignment. We are not assigned to all people. Our assignment may even take us to another geographical region. I found out that I had done so much for my pastors and for the people–putting myself and children on the “back burner” for the progress of the ministry–but questioned what had I really done “for God.” Was I really serving God? Was I really occupying–not in the church work (was busy doing that) but occupying in my purpose and life assignment? After taking a survey and introspective view of “me,” I felt so cheated.

It took a while and some time, but now I am evolving. Thank God! The Lord never stops being a “Savior.” He saved me from spiritual suicide and delivered me from people. God loved me so much that he moved me from a ministry where my “work” had been concluded and gave me an A1, topnotch Pastor that salvaged my life and ministry (no unforgiveness nor disrespect to my former pastor–he did what he knew; you can outgrow your leader). Salvage means to save something for further use or rescue something/someone from a bad situation or destruction because of its’/their value, worth, and purpose.
As a priest, I am a gift given to the church for the perfecting of the saints, the work of the ministry, and the edification of the body of Christ (Ephesians 4:11,12). However, my assignment constantly changes while my lifes’ purpose does not. This brings about balance; the honing of my craft in preaching and teaching; inner joy, peace, and happiness; and keeps me from getting bored. Yes, I said it, bored. When you do what you were created to do, you never get bored! Walking in the blessed zone “daily loadeth me with benefits” where no choking, killing ivy exits.









